I recently enlisted as an HM and have many questions regarding where i might be sent after boot camp, such as where my 'A' schooling will be. Can i be put in FMSS? or no because i'm a woman? and where will i be sent after 'A' school? can i go with the Marines?

I plan on making a career in the Navy, but i want to become a doctor (specifically a physical therapist), is that possible with HM?

Yes, females can be assigned to the Marines, but it won't be with any combat units. Air wings, naval hospitals aboard Marine bases, logistical units etc.

As to the rest of your questions....sorry, can't help you.